After years of coaching moms and helping them lose weight, here’s what I know for sure:
Millennial moms overcomplicate weight loss.
Not because you’re doing something wrong. Not because you aren’t committed. And certainly not because you don’t care enough.
You overcomplicate weight loss because you’re smart.
You’re used to solving problems. You’re used to researching, learning, optimizing, and finding better systems. In most areas of life, that’s a huge advantage. It’s probably one of the reasons you’re been successful in your career, parenting, finances, and personal goals.
The problem is that they bring that same approach into weight loss. Instead of simplifying, you start adding.
You overhaul their eating habits. You find a new workout routine. You start tracking protein. Then they focus on gut health. Then hormones. Then strength training. Then 10,000 steps. Then a fitness class. Then meal prep. Then supplements. Then the latest challenge everyone seems to be doing online.
Before long, weight loss feels like a second job.
The problem isn’t that those things don’t work.
Many of them do.
The problem is that most women are trying to do all of them at the same time while already managing a completely full life.
You have kids to take care of. A marriage to nurture. A household to run. Work responsibilities. Family obligations. Friendships. Appointments. Activities. A never-ending list of things demanding your time and attention.
Adding a complicated weight loss plan on top of an already maxed-out life isn’t usually the answer.
In fact, it’s often the reason women stay stuck.
The more complicated the plan becomes, the harder it is to follow consistently. The harder it is to follow consistently, the less likely it is to produce long-term results.
That’s why so many women find themselves trapped in a frustrating cycle. You start a new program feeling motivated and hopeful. You commit fully. You buy the foods, follow the plan, and throw themselves into the process.
Then life happens.
A child gets sick. Work gets busy. Vacation arrives. The holidays show up. A stressful season hits.
And suddenly the plan that looked great on paper no longer fits into real life.
The problem isn’t a lack of willpower.
The problem is that the plan required too much given your full mom life.
Resources:
- How I Lost 50lbs In 4 Months After Having My Third Baby (Mini Course)
- Weight Loss For High Achieving Moms (Audio Program)
- Lose 30lbs+ In 6 Months With Natalie (1:1 Weight Loss Coaching)
Weight Loss Needs To Fit Into Your Life
One of the biggest mistakes I see moms make is believing you need to organize your lives around weight loss.
I believe the opposite. Weight loss should fit into your life.
When I lost 50 pounds after having my third baby, I wasn’t looking for the most advanced weight loss strategy available. I wasn’t trying to find the perfect workout routine or create a complicated nutrition plan.
I had 3 kids under 4 years old. I was working. I was breastfeeding. I had a full life.
I needed a solution that would work in the reality of my circumstances, not in some imaginary version of my life where I had unlimited time and energy.
That’s why I’ve become so passionate about helping women simplify weight loss.
Most moms don’t need more information. They need a way simpler process.
They need a plan that still works when the kids wake up all night. A plan that still works during vacations. A plan that still works when work gets busy. A plan that doesn’t require perfect conditions to succeed.
Because permanent weight loss isn’t created during perfect weeks.
It’s created during ordinary weeks.
Resources:
- My Weight Loss Journey Losing 50lbs In 4 Months After Having My Third Baby (Blog post)
- How I Lost 50 Pounds After Having My Third Baby (In Just 4 Months) (Blog post)
- Weight Loss For Moms (And My Weight Loss Journey) (Podcast)
The Weight Loss Industry Profits From Complexity
One reason I think so many moms continue to overcomplicate weight loss is because complexity is constantly being sold to us.
There’s always a new system. A new challenge. A new protocol. A new expert promising that their approach is the missing piece.
The message is subtle but powerful: what you’re doing isn’t enough. You need one more thing.
So you keep searching.
Meanwhile, you overlook the fact that weight loss is fundamentally much simpler than you’ve been led to believe.
The irony is that many moms become incredibly educated about weight loss without actually losing weight permanently.
You know more than enough.
What you don’t need isn’t more information.
What you need is implementation that actually fits your current life.
Resources:
- What I Didn’t Do To Lose 50lbs After Baby #3 (blog post)
- How I Lost 50 Pounds In 4 Months After Having My Third Baby (Podcast)
- My Weight Loss Story Losing 50lbs After Having My Third Baby (podcast)
What Actually Causes Weight Loss
At the end of the day, weight loss requires a calorie deficit.
That statement isn’t exciting. It isn’t trendy. It isn’t particularly marketable.But it’s true.
A calorie deficit simply means consuming less energy than your body uses over time.
Notice what isn’t included in that definition. You don’t have to exercise. You don’t have to count calories. You don’t have to eat perfectly. You don’t have to eliminate entire food groups. You don’t have to follow a complicated meal plan.
Many of those tools can be helpful. But they’re tools, not requirements.
This is where so many moms get distracted. You can spend months focusing on secondary issues while ignoring the primary one.
You’re trying to optimize everything but your life is already too full for that to be sustainable.
The Skills Most Millennial Moms Avoid
The truth is that permanent weight loss requires a few simple skills that most women spend years trying to avoid.
I teach all these weight loss skills inside At Your Goal Weight (my instant, on demand weight loss program)
Skills like —
Anchoring to the scale daily to track.
Mild, doable hunger.
Going into a calorie deficit (without counting calories.)
Navigating trips, holidays, and weekends.
Consistency to create 1-2lbs/week.
Stop eating at night.
All these skills are learnable and doable. They require you to do LESS, which is why they fit so nicely into millennial mom life.
Lose More With Less
The reason I call my approach Lose More With Less is because that’s exactly what I discovered during my own weight loss journey.
Like many millennial moms, I spent years assuming weight loss required doing more. More exercise. More healthy eating. More planning. More effort. More time.
But after having my third son, I didn’t have more time.
I didn’t have hours to spend at the gym. I wasn’t interested in turning food into a full-time hobby. And I certainly wasn’t willing to build a complicated system that required me to constantly think about weight loss all day long.
What I needed was a way to lose weight within the life I was already living.
That’s when I realized something that completely changed my perspective: weight loss isn’t a productivity problem.
You don’t lose weight because you’re the woman doing the most.
You lose weight because you’re the woman doing the right things effectively.
There’s a big difference.
So I figured out how to lose MORE weight by doing LESS.
That was a couple of years ago now. Since then I’ve gone on to help many moms lose weight using my Lose More With Less Method.
A Final Note
I’d love to help you achieve your weight loss goal —
First, Weight Loss Secrets ($17) is my introductory mini-course where I share the biggest lessons I learned losing 50 pounds after having my third baby, along with the most common mistakes I see smart, successful women making when it comes to weight loss.
Next, At Your Goal Weight ($2,497) is my signature weight loss program where I teach my complete Lose More With Less Method so you can lose weight permanently without counting calories, overhauling your eating habits, or spending hours exercising.
Finally, for women who want the highest level of support, accountability, and personalized coaching, I offer Private 1:1 Weight Loss Coaching ($6,000, application only).
No matter where you start, the goal is the same: permanent weight loss that fits into your life. Not another complicated plan. Not another fresh start. Just a simpler way to finally get to your goal weight and stay there.
